List of memories of my uncle
My earliest memory of my uncle was playing ‘airplane’ in the front yard of Grandma and Grandpa’s house
As a kid, I remember how much he loved us (nephew #1!). He’d take us out to:
- Busch Gardens
- Historical Sites
- Car shows
- Go Kart
- Skiing
- Swimming at his pool
- Shooting range
- Skiing (wearing gear on the ski slope … pro)
- Air Shows
- Embarassing Jean-Claude Van Damme picture pose
Uncle Gene was always there
- Church, then Waffle n Things or another breakfast place
- Coming over to dinner with scrubs or gym clothes, famished (Are you going to eat that?)
- Thanksgiving
- Christmas
- Birthdays (provided the pesos for my treasure hunt birthday)
- Karate Lessons
- Write letters for graduation, confirmation (he was my confirmation sponsor)
Uncle Gene the wise: could get really immersed in his ideas
- Grilling out and flames of the grill out of control, oblivious. (He ended up warping the condo siding)
- On hikes to Old Rag, inevitably Uncle Gene drops back to chat with you: Intelligent Design, the de-valuatization of the US dollar, a godless society (if you don’t answer to god, who do you answer to?), finding live tissue in a fossilize dinosaur remains
- Uncle Gene’s infamous hanging question (I’d always get it wrong, answering “Yes”, but then “No!, but let me explain why, Robbie”)
He took care of people
- Asthma medicine
- Sharing via email distributions, since the day the internet was created it seemed, until his passing
- Les Paul … life ling guitarist
- Weightset … fitness minded
- Emergency Prep bag
- Swiss army knives
- Always handing out cash
- Truck shopping: Toyota, Bronco II … enguinity
- Always helping mom and aunt carla
Big appetite/Favorite eats
- Old country buffer and Golden Corral
- Why not pizza
Uncle Gene the Wise
- Get restaurant biz out of your system
- Believe in yourself
- Attitude is everything
- Lead by Example
- Experience is the best teacher…sometimes not so great being taught though
- Golden Rule, yes, but would about the Platinun rule?
Towards the end of high school, as a punk teenager, i ran with a bad crowd for a bit. We still spent time together and he didn’t give up on me
Now I owe a large part of who I am to Uncle Gene: attitude, job, family, god, guitar
Uncle Gene showed me what it meant to lead by example, to be strong, kind, generous, and full of faith.
Uncle #1
Love, Robbie