Eugene Conti, MD

9 October 2020

List of memories of my uncle

My earliest memory of my uncle was playing ‘airplane’ in the front yard of Grandma and Grandpa’s house

As a kid, I remember how much he loved us (nephew #1!). He’d take us out to:

  • Busch Gardens
  • Historical Sites
  • Car shows
  • Go Kart
  • Skiing
  • Swimming at his pool
  • Shooting range
  • Skiing (wearing gear on the ski slope … pro)
  • Air Shows
  • Embarassing Jean-Claude Van Damme picture pose

Uncle Gene was always there

  • Church, then Waffle n Things or another breakfast place
  • Coming over to dinner with scrubs or gym clothes, famished (Are you going to eat that?)
  • Thanksgiving
  • Christmas
  • Birthdays (provided the pesos for my treasure hunt birthday)
  • Karate Lessons
  • Write letters for graduation, confirmation (he was my confirmation sponsor)

Uncle Gene the wise: could get really immersed in his ideas

  • Grilling out and flames of the grill out of control, oblivious. (He ended up warping the condo siding)
  • On hikes to Old Rag, inevitably Uncle Gene drops back to chat with you: Intelligent Design, the de-valuatization of the US dollar, a godless society (if you don’t answer to god, who do you answer to?), finding live tissue in a fossilize dinosaur remains
  • Uncle Gene’s infamous hanging question (I’d always get it wrong, answering “Yes”, but then “No!, but let me explain why, Robbie”)

He took care of people

  • Asthma medicine
  • Sharing via email distributions, since the day the internet was created it seemed, until his passing
  • Les Paul … life ling guitarist
  • Weightset … fitness minded
  • Emergency Prep bag
  • Swiss army knives
  • Always handing out cash
  • Truck shopping: Toyota, Bronco II … enguinity
  • Always helping mom and aunt carla

Big appetite/Favorite eats

  • Old country buffer and Golden Corral
  • Why not pizza

Uncle Gene the Wise

  • Get restaurant biz out of your system
  • Believe in yourself
  • Attitude is everything
  • Lead by Example
  • Experience is the best teacher…sometimes not so great being taught though
  • Golden Rule, yes, but would about the Platinun rule?

Towards the end of high school, as a punk teenager, i ran with a bad crowd for a bit. We still spent time together and he didn’t give up on me

Now I owe a large part of who I am to Uncle Gene: attitude, job, family, god, guitar

Uncle Gene showed me what it meant to lead by example, to be strong, kind, generous, and full of faith.

Uncle #1

Love, Robbie

Rob Cecchino